I’ve been in prison for years with some people, then one day I see a photo of them in the free world, or overhear them with their family in the visiting room – and I’d have sworn this was a wholly different person. When all must wear the same prison issued clothes, it’s easy to fake.
Most everyone has ‘Photo’ clothes and ‘Visiting’ clothes that look nicer than their other clothes. In here there are many ways to make money, selling artwork and the such, but another one is letter writing.
This prison environment is so sterilized and neutral, it doesn’t lend itself to showing off personality. What are the subtle and glaring misrepresentations? Women have their hair extensions and whatever other enhanced aspects to them and men do as well.
Family accounts can add a depth to your understanding of your prisoner’s naturally occurring mannerisms and quirks. It could be as simple as faking fashion sense and style.
It explains: "He/She will get excited when their name is called to receive a letter from you. However, others might wonder what they might be getting themselves into.
Just think how lonely it must feel at mail call to never hear your name being called, especially after being locked up for several years and family and friends have deserted you." It even offers the phrase: "Don't be shy, give it a try! Anyone who has attempted to date online knows that even those not in cells tend to sell themselves with copious amounts of dubious information -- and vast amounts of highly deceptive Photo Shop.
You’re one of those who has yet to find that person to walk your journey with.Clearly the concept of dating an inmate has its handcuffs.You can't actually go out with them to dinner and "Nightmare on Elm Street Part VII." However, the site says that all they're looking for are penpals.No subterfuge at work there, but the disparity between one’s daily clothes and visiting clothes is a clue. People pay others to write their letters, so they don’t appear as illiterate or poor with words. One benefit for extending your romantic options to include those who are incarcerated is that you’ll get a higher level of captivated interest and a heightened receptivity to relationships. There will be enough naturally occurring difficulties in developing a relationship, don’t let the above add to them. There are scammers and those with a limited capacity to truly know others on a deeper level.Some people in here, if you see them daily, you’d think they never got out of bed, the wrinkles and such. When getting to know someone, be sure you’re getting to know . When the two of you discuss plans for the future, are their talks surrounding THEIR plans, THEIR dreams, what THEY need and what THEY are going to do? Love can be found anywhere, and with work, it can flourish. No matter how mindful you are, there will be challenges.
Some might, therefore, reach the conclusion that those who might have transgressed society's strictures might also be tempted to transgress the lesser mores of dating morality.